Where Have You Been jeff noel?

It's been a very busy, very rewarding, year.

Where have you been jeff noel?

Where have I been?

Busy.

Busy working a real job.

Busy traveling.

Busy being a Dad.

Busy keeping up with things that come with having a mortgage and a Family.

Busy walking our Dog.

Busy praying.

Busy thinking, and exercising.

Busy reading.

And of course, busy writing.

I write five daily, differently-themed blogs. Every morning. Rain or shine. At home or on the road.

Whether I feel like it or not.

This blog, Leadership Is Like Training A Puppy, has been on the back burner, simmering, while the main course has been setting prolific blogging records at Mid Life Celebration, LLC.

Happy New Year’s eve! Let’s blow the roof off 2012!

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Simple Can Be Harder Than Complex: The Long Way Is The Short Cut (Steve Jobs & jeff noel)

A well trained puppy involves simple leadership principles, and takes a long time

Simple can be harder than complex: You have to work hard to get your thinking clean to make it simple. But it’s worth it in the end because once you get there, you can move mountains.
- Steve Jobs, 1955 – 2011

The long way is the short cut.
- jeff noel, 1959 -

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In Life, It’s All About Working Things Out

Few of us embrace simplicity and common sense as adults, mostly because it’s been beaten out of us. Poor leadership. Poor self-image. Doubt. Fear. Long list, right?

The aspects of those things most important are hidden because of their simplicity and familiarity.

When do these things resurface in our lives, giving us a second chance to consider making them important again? Last night driving home from dropping off our son’s sleepover buddy, my son and I had a conversation and the most basic and important phrase came out of my mouth.

Epiphany!

In life, it’s all about working things out.

Immediately, two leaders came to mind. Misunderstanding, driven by lack of communication, assumptions, busy schedules, excuses, etc, can skew the truth so badly, that great opportunities are buried, when they could very well be the next big breakthrough.

There, that’s the main message. If you want to read more, this whole thing started when I reflected on how well Chapin and his friend (both 10) played together. “You guys got along great. Only one or two challenges, but you worked it out.”

“You know, like they say on American Idol. Dude, you worked it out.”

My son was still confused at the metaphor. Told him on American Idol, working it out means singing an amazing song. But in this context, working it out meant you and another person solved a difference of opinion.

That’s what life is all about, I piped, without even thinking twice. And it hit me three seconds later, so I pulled over and wrote it down.

Profoundly simple. Simply profound.

Life is like that.

Glad I worked it out between me and my intuition.

A boy and his future ‘brother’, the canine inspiration for this blog…

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Hard To Believe That It’s Been A Month Since jeff noel, The Blog Whisperer, Posted Here

Do you have dreams of writing a book? Ever consider a crazy title like, Leadership Is Like Training A Puppy? I would. Wait, I am.

Yeah, jeff noel, The Blog Whisperer here, even though it’s been a month since I’ve posted here, it’s only been a few minutes since I’ve posted here. Have written over 4,000 posts the past 2 years.

Cooper, our Yellow Lab puppy, inspired this Blog and website. Not many Dogs have their own blog. Not many bloggers write 5 daily, differently-themed blogs. Anyway, we’ve had these two Ducks occupying the same spot in our front yard, under an Oak tree. Closest water is 300 meters away.

Our ‘water dog’ is curious why these ducks float on land.

Always a helpful Lab, Cooper sort of directs them on their way.

Training, in any arena, has it’s moments. Things come at your leadership team that no one ever saw coming. In this case, the benign arrival of the squatting Ducks.

In other cases, severe and life-altering moments…

Wait, that wasn’t it. This is it…

Adversity doesn’t develop character, it reveals it.

The time to prepare for pain is when the sun is shining.

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At Least Where I Come From

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Leadership IS like training a puppy. Seriously.

The ingredients are exactly the same.

  • Love (servant leadership)
  • Selection (pick the best you can afford)
  • Vision (well-trained people & pets)
  • Mission (great service)
  • Consistency (at every step)
  • Training (master the fundamentals)
  • Support (care & “feeding”)
  • Rewards (what gets rewarded gets repeated)
  • Purpose (teamwork)

Earlier today, our ‘puppy’, Cooper,  was not cooperating. He would not let me get close to him – he knew I was disappointed. It took me a few minutes to get into a position where I could make myself clear.

At just the right moment, I grabbed the thick neck fur and skin of this 85-pound Lab pup and forced his muzzle into the grass. Like a wrestler, I quickly mounted on top of Cooper and with my body weight, pinned him to the ground.

My face was now in his face – 3 inches apart. And in no uncertain terms, I used a tone that was crystal clear – I’m Akela (leader), you listen to me. Period.

Moments later, upon releasing Cooper from that alpha dog grip, Cooper came and laid at my feet. Our son (10) witnessed the whole thing and I asked a very specific question.

“Do you see the difference in Cooper’s behavior now that he’s clear on who’s the alpha?”

I then got down on my knees and loved Cooper as sweetly and gently as I could. From ‘death grip” to the loving embrace in 2 minutes.

When you are crystal clear as a leader, people get it. It takes time (this wasn’t the 1st ‘death grip’) and patience. And sometimes, you need to get in someones face.

Twice.

Once to be clear (on your expectations).

And once to be clear again (on your love for their role in the team).

Leadership is like training a puppy. Most of us are not very good at training pets. And most of us are not good at leadership either.

What can we do? Read. Observe. Try. Fail. Learn. Try agin. Remember your higher purpose as  leader is to lead, not manage.

Leading is about being in front, showing the way.

And it’s also about teaching. At least where I come from.

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Would You Have Gotten Back Up?

Heather Dorniden of the University of Minnesota races the 600m at the Big 10 Indoor Track (2008) Championships. In lap 2, Heather took a bad fall.

Would you have gotten back up from this heartbreaking fall?

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Do It Better, Different, or Both

Whistle while you work. Give a little whistle… If you’re going to whistle, and have plans to win a world whistling championship, you better do it better or differently (or both) than the other whistlers.

Tim Eggert demonstrates that this simple concept can be applied to anything. Even whistling.

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Why You Should Not Read Poke The Box

Optimists will love and need Seth’s manifesto as much as they love and need oxygen. Fence-sitters and pessimists, well, they’ll continue to complain the air’s too hot, too cold, too windy, too still, too dry, too damp, blah, blah, blah.

So, if you waffle or complain, that’s good enough reason to not read Poke The Box.

If you’re optimistic and hopeful, Poke The Box will be like oxygen.

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Kill Shelters Are Needed

Wonder if the abandoned puppies ever see it coming?

Leadership is serious business some of the time, fun some of the time and some of the time, it’s sad. It’s the same with Pets. Hear me out.

We just finished watching The Switch, in which the final scene has Sebastian, the 7-year old boy, stubbornly refusing to blow out the candles until someone at his party volunteers to adopt Doug from the Kill Shelter. Today is Doug’s last day if no one saves him.

Trouble is, no one wants Doug. He’s old. He only has three legs.

Switch back to my living room, our Son (10) asks me what a Kill Shelter is.

People get Pets, cute, cuddly, adorable puppies, thinking the training is within their abilities. Truth is, training a puppy is like leadership. Hard. Difficult. Tiring. Frustrating.

So, unlike leadership, people reach a breaking point and take their unruly Dog to the Pound, the Animal Shelter. If no one adopts them quickly, the are killed, humanly. But killed nonetheless.

They have to be, there’s a steady stream – more abandoned and unwanted pets. There’s simply no room unless room is made.

I told our son that Puppies don’t listen, they chew, destroy, bark, urinate, poop, run away – making a long list of reasons to dump them.

And then I told him I make it look easy. The reason Cooper listens like he does is simply this: Leadership is like training a puppy. Training, development, recognition, involvement, patience, vision. Hard. Difficult. Tiring. Frustrating.

But in the end, a labor of love. A calling. A privilege.

If your career plan involves becoming a leader, with an official title, paycheck and expectations, are you sure you can handle it?

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5 Things Small Businesses Should Know About Facebook Fan Pages

Yep, jeff noel here, a small business entrepreneur (like many of you), Orlando-based Professional Keynote speaker, and this place is not far from home. Everything I do offers inspiration for Mid Life Celebration’s Facebook Fan Page. Where does your Fan Page inspiration come from?

5 Things Small Businesses Should Know About Facebook Fan Pages. Mashable, which I referenced in yesterday’s post, came up with 5 great tactics to give heavy consideration to.

If you’re like many small business entrepreneurs, you haven’t quit your day job. The main reason I haven’t quit mine is because it’s hard to imagine life without it.

My gig is one of the coolest and sweetest out there, Professional Speaker for a world-class organization. Cooler still, I can practically walk to Cinderella Castle. But I digress.

Launched a Facebook Fan Page for Mid Life Celebration, LLC a few months ago. Am going to give some time and effort to those 5 tips. You’d be a fool not to. I’m not saying believe it all, just to be prudent.

 

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